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Latest Dating & Engaged · October 3, 2026

Is Premarital Counseling Worth It? What the Research Actually Shows

Premarital counseling is worth it for most engaged couples, but not for the reason people expect. The best evidence links it to lower divorce odds and clearly better…

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Couple standing close together outdoors, illustrating self-expansion theory relationships
Dating & Engaged September 25, 2026

Self-Expansion Theory Relationships: Why New Love Feels So Big

Self-expansion theory relationships explains why falling for someone new can make you feel smarter, braver, and more interesting…

Two coffee cups symbolizing dating again after a breakup at your own pace
Dating & Engaged September 22, 2026

Dating Again After a Breakup: How to Know You Are Ready

Dating again after a breakup is less about how much time has passed and more about whether you…

A pensive woman experiencing relationship OCD and intrusive relationship doubts
Dating & Engaged September 21, 2026

Relationship OCD: When Doubt Is Anxiety, Not an Answer

Relationship OCD is a form of obsessive-compulsive disorder in which intrusive, unwanted doubts about your partner or the…

Person alone with coffee feeling a vulnerability hangover after opening up
Dating & Engaged September 9, 2026

The Vulnerability Hangover: Why Getting Close Can Feel Like a Mistake

A vulnerability hangover is the wave of anxiety, regret, or exposure you feel after opening up to someone…

A couple standing close, symbolizing strong emotional permanence in relationships
Dating & Engaged September 8, 2026

Emotional Permanence in Relationships: Why Love Vanishes the Moment They Leave the Room

Emotional permanence is the ability to keep feeling securely loved even when your partner is not physically present,…

A couple holding hands before getting engaged
Dating & Engaged September 7, 2026

How Long Should You Date Before Getting Engaged? What the Research Says

Before getting engaged, most couples benefit from dating at least a year or two, because research links longer…

A person feeling dating app fatigue holding a phone
Dating & Engaged September 7, 2026

Dating App Fatigue: Why More Matches Make You Lonelier

Dating app fatigue is the emotional burnout that builds from endless swiping, repetitive small talk, and matches that…

Two partners holding hands, rebuilding an anxious avoidant relationship
Dating & Engaged September 4, 2026

The Anxious-Avoidant Trap: Why You Keep Chasing and Running

Anxious avoidant relationship dynamics happen when one partner craves closeness and reassurance while the other needs distance to…

talking about money before marriage
Dating & Engaged August 29, 2026

Talking About Money Before Marriage: The Numbers Are the Easy Part

Talking about money before marriage is not a disclosure exercise. It is a translation exercise. Salaries, debts and…

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Dating & Engaged August 28, 2026

Dating Someone With Different Political Views: What Actually Predicts Whether It Works

Dating someone with different political views can work. Research says the deciding factor is not policy but what…

A couple on a date at a restaurant, the ambiguity of a situationship
Dating & Engaged August 27, 2026

Why a Situationship Hurts More Than a Breakup: The Research on Unequal Commitment

A situationship is usually described as a relationship without a label. That framing is wrong, and the wrongness…

Two people talking, illustrating how to define the relationship
Dating & Engaged August 26, 2026

Define the Relationship: Ask a Behavior Question, Not a Status Question

The define the relationship conversation, or DTR, almost always fails for the same reason: people ask a status…

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