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Latest Separation & Divorce · October 22, 2026

Custody Evaluation: What Evaluators Look For and How to Prepare Honestly

Custody evaluation is a court-ordered or agreed-upon forensic assessment in which a neutral mental health professional studies each parent, the children, and their relationships, then reports to the…

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Grey family house with a front porch, the focus of keeping the house in divorce decisions
Separation & Divorce October 20, 2026

Keeping the House in Divorce: How to Decide With Your Head and Heart

Keeping the house in divorce makes sense only if you can carry it on one income without draining…

Young person sitting alone on a window sill, reflecting the inner side of divorce and teenagers
Separation & Divorce October 18, 2026

Divorce and Teenagers: Why Teens React Differently and What Helps

Divorce and teenagers is a different mix than divorce with young children: teens understand more, pull away more,…

Parent holding a child's hand on a path, staying steady while co-parenting with a narcissist
Separation & Divorce October 16, 2026

Co-Parenting With a Narcissist: How to Protect Your Kids and Your Peace

Co-parenting with a narcissist, or with anyone whose behavior seems driven by control and conflict, usually works best…

Parent reading paperwork at a kitchen table while learning how child support works
Separation & Divorce October 14, 2026

How Child Support Works: Formulas, Changes, and Enforcement Explained

How child support works in the US: each state plugs the parents’ incomes into a guideline formula, and…

Two wedding bands side by side, symbolizing the choice of legal separation vs divorce
Separation & Divorce October 12, 2026

Legal Separation vs Divorce: Key Differences and How to Choose

Legal separation vs divorce comes down to one question: do you want the marriage legally ended? A legal…

Father and son walking together after a child refuses visitation
Separation & Divorce October 10, 2026

When a Child Refuses Visitation: Causes, Safety and What Helps

Child refuses visitation cases rarely trace back to one parent’s manipulation alone. Research on resist-refuse dynamics finds most…

Family sitting around a dining table, planning a co-parenting holiday schedule
Separation & Divorce October 4, 2026

Co-Parenting Holiday Schedule: Why Calm Handoffs Matter More Than a Perfect 50/50 Split

Co-parenting holiday schedule decisions should start with one question: how does this plan keep our child out of…

Two people reviewing documents during divorce mediation
Separation & Divorce October 4, 2026

Divorce Mediation vs. Litigation: What a 12-Year Study Found About Kids

Divorce mediation is usually better than litigation for parents who can still negotiate safely, and the strongest evidence…

Calculator and paperwork on a desk representing untangling finances after divorce
Separation & Divorce September 25, 2026

Untangling Your Finances After Divorce: A Practical Guide

Untangling finances after divorce means the practical, account-by-account work of separating money that a divorce decree only says…

A parent and child staying close while adjusting to two homes after divorce
Separation & Divorce September 22, 2026

Helping Kids Adjust to Two Homes After a Divorce

Helping kids adjust to two homes depends far less on the custody schedule and far more on keeping…

A parent and child on a hike, a calm way of introducing a new partner after divorce
Separation & Divorce September 21, 2026

Introducing Kids to a New Partner After Divorce: Timing That Protects Them

New partner after divorce introductions should happen slowly and only once the relationship is stable and committed —…

A person standing in a doorway, reflecting the boundary ambiguity that lingers after divorce
Separation & Divorce September 8, 2026

Boundary Ambiguity After Divorce: Why the Family That Ended Still Feels Unfinished

Boundary ambiguity is the confusion a family carries after divorce about who is still “in” and who is…

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